He also said another thing that tickled me, he said that he has made it a habit to buy his wife of 20 years (What a blessing first of all!) an excellent gift(s), flowers etc every time he is not HAPPY with her. Whattttt????!!!!!😮 I can tell you this much, for most of us when we are angry, buying our significant other a gift is the furthest thing from our minds. But that is what conforming looks like! Jesus exchanged our lives for His on the cross even when we did not deserve it. The Bible says Husbands love your wives as Christ loves the Church- What did Christ do- He gave us something we don